bed rest...

About two weeks ago, I was on the phone with Sarah and was mentioning how many contractions I was having. She started timing them and they were coming every six minutes. If I sat down and rested, they slowed down considerably. But, the second I got up to do anything at all, the contractions started back up again, six minutes apart.... Of course, I mentioned it to my doctor when I went in for my appointment and fully expected her to tell me just to take it a little easier, drink more water, etc. But, after checking me, she perscribed terbutaline and put me on bed rest! You cannot imagine the shock I experienced! So, I have been on bed rest for a week and a half now and have one more week to go. They want to be sure the baby will not come before 36 weeks, then after that the restrictions are lifted and whenever he decides to come, he can come!
When I was first put on bed rest, I was overwhelmed with how I could take care of the girls and take care of this baby at the same time. I wanted to follow my doctor's instructions, but at the same time, the girls still needed attention. So, I would have to get up to help them in the bathroom or get them food and then would feel guilty. But, I didn't know what else to do. The girls still needed their Mom. All I can say is that I am thankful for people who stepped in to take care of my family when I couldn't do it. It is hard for me to let go of control and know that I can't take care of everything by myself. But, I had to get past that. And, I am SO thankful for everyone who has helped our family! Char and Dave brought dinner a couple of times, Char came and cleaned my kitchen, Charai swept and dust-mopped my wood floor, Sarah and David had our family over for meals and playtime, Chantel brought dinner, etc. And then, my sweet Mom came into town to help me. She came Monday morning and stayed through this morning (Friday). I can't even begin to tell you what a huge help that was! She did everything...literally. She made all the meals, cleaned my entire house, did my grocery shopping, entertained the girls with books, walks, trips to visit Karli and Garrett, and so much more. The girls are already going through Grandma withdrawals! And, my Dad is coming to help me next week! I am so blessed to have such supportive family and friends!