When Addy started kindergarten, I wondered how Brighton would adjust to not have a built-in playmate at home with her all day. I remember my Mom telling the story of how sad I was when Holly went to school. We lived close enough to the elementary school that if I was outside playing in the yard, I could hear the children playing on the school playground. So, of course, I thought they could hear me too. When I was feeling especially sad or bored, I would go out into the yard and yell as loud as I possibly could, "Tressa and Holly! COME HOME NOW!!!" You can imagine my surprise then as the first day of school came and went with not even one little mention of the girls all day. Days turned into weeks. I was starting to wonder if Brighton even realized that the girls were gone!
Well now, here we are in Idaho. The older girls have settled into school, made new friends and seem to be adapting really well. But, Brighton is still really struggling with the change. Now, she asks me every day, multiple times a day if it is time for the girls to come home yet. Meeting the bus is the highlight of her day. I have to admit. It is a highlight of my day too. Just watching Brighton's excitment and enthusiasm is enough to make it a highlight for me. We start walking down the street. Sometimes we get to the end of the street and wait at the bus stop for the bus to arrive. But, sometimes... Sometimes... the bus makes it to the bus stop before we make it all the way to the end of the street. Kennady and Addy get off the bus, cross the street, and start walking down the sidewalk toward home. As soon as Brighton spots them, she starts running and exclaiming, "Kennady! Addy! Yea!!!" Then, when she meets them, she throws her arms around them and gives them each a big hug.
Also, every day, without fail, she tells me that she "wants to go home to Ariyona." The other day, BJ was home eating lunch and overheard her saying this. He asked her what she missed about Arizona. Her answer: "My home. Take me home to my home in Ariyona." We explained to her that Daddy doesn't have a job in Arizona so we are going to find a new home in Idaho. She said, "Daddy, take me home to Ariyona and I will find you a job." Poor, sweet little Brighton. Change is hard sometimes, isn't it?
(Picture taken on the walk to meet the girls' bus today)
Friday, November 14, 2008
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It's hard not having your own house isn't it Brighton? Hopefully you can find a place all your own soon. Despite having an "apartment" at my in-laws it just isn't the same without your own stuff around.
But, Aunt Holly and Uncle Brett and Grandpa Gary and Grandma Kathy are coming to visit!! Maybe they can bring a little piece of Ariyona with them. :)
Poor, sweet Brighton! I got all choked up just picturing her running down the sidewalk to her older sisters (darn pregnancy hormones!)...
I feel for Brighton! Ryan is sad all afternoon waiting for Jace. He does ok in the morning, but it's just too long to wait all day for his friend to come home.
Ahhhh. How sad. Everytime I run by your house I think of you guys and wonder how you are all doing. Changes like these take time. Tell her Ariyona misses her too.
She is just DARLING!!! I miss Ariyona too sweet girl! Maybe someday we can go on a visit together.
Oh Mindy!!! I actually was getting tears in my eyes when I read this! I really miss my Brighton and the rest of the kidds! Hopefully I will really get to come down after Zach graduates. Give the girls a big hug for me. Tell them we miss them and we will see them soon. Love you!
Aw, this is SO SWEET! Your kids are ADOREABLE, Min! :)
-jd
I'll bring some Ariyona with me - I promise! How bout some yummy chorizo for Christmas morning breakfast? I'll bring some crazy Ariyona kids too! Can't wait to see you guys! The kids are on the countdown...9 more days til we leave for Utah. Yay!
I know, I know...Everybody move back to Ariyona together! We'll have a party!
So stinking cute!
That has to be a heart breaker. Its crazy how attached the little ones are to people and places more than the older ones are sometimes. She is such a sweet girl.
Poor little Brighton! I feel the same way as she does sometimes and I've lived in prescott valley for over a year now. I swing up there, pick her up, and we can go back to Phoenix together where is it almost always warm!
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